admin I was raised during a time where internet was almost nonexistent, and where video games and home computers were not as common. Since then technology has rapidly progressed into all that we have today.
Is it good, is it bad?
Let’s be honest, technology has made our lives easier. Nowadays having a laptop, pc or tablet is the norm not the exception. Like everything else in life, it has its pros and cons.
Do I let my kids use technology? Yes. Do I let my 9-yr old have a Facebook and Instagram account? No.
I find that some parents preach about limiting screen time but then allow their children to have social media accounts (mind you not everyone). I find it contradictory, because as much as excessive screen time is bad, having a social media account when you are not of the right age is just as bad.
I may sound old fashioned but at the age of 9yrs, children should not have a phone, let alone a facebook account or an instagram account. Why would a 9yr old need a phone, if s/he does not go out alone?!
I am sure that some might be judging my decision, however there is a reason why there is a minimum age limit to open such accounts. As adults, sometimes we fall into the trap of wanting a lifestyle that we see on Instagram. The perfection that we see on some social media accounts, is not real and children are still to young to make such a distinction.
In my opinion it is totally unacceptable for children to have phone and/or social media accounts. Unfortunately some parents fall for such requests, and I can understand them. However, despite all the good intentions, sometimes it can have the opposite effect.
Children are already faced with challenges, so let’s not add more.
What makes things even worse, is the bullying that goes on these social media accounts. Unfortunately, recently we have been hearing more about social media bullying. We are raising children (we have adults too), who think that sitting behind a screen and writing nasty comments on social media (whether anonymously or not) is acceptable and makes them untouchable.
IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!
We are raising children who think that the world owes them something. These kids need a reality check immediately, together with some of their parents. Such behaviour makes other children’s lives miserable.
We all love our children dearly and want the best for them, but let’s do them a favor and teach them respect towards others and that no one owes them anything. Let’s teach them to work hard to achieve their goals.
Our children are faced with bullying, if they do not fit in. Letting them have social media accounts, will not only expose them to further bullying but will also make them feel insecure if they don’t receive ‘likes’.
Let our children be themselves, without chasing the ‘likes’ and ‘followers’. Likes and followers can be bought, but serenity cannot. What is important is that they have the love and respect of the people that truly matter in their lives.
Let them be children, they will have ample time to be on social media.
Note: If you child has been a victim of cyber bulling don’t be afraid to report to the police.
Love
Strugglingmum xxx
